Writer's Block: The nickname game
Mar. 6th, 2011 09:51 am[Error: unknown template qotd]Omigosh, none! I think it's presumptuous and rude. I may call some of them by their screen name now and then, but those are names they've given themselves. A person's name is a big part of his identity, and I wouldn't dare.
Let me tell you how I feel about having a nickname bestowed upon me. I hate it. I prefer to be called by my name, my full name, and not a shortened or diminutive version of my name. It gripes me no end that people automatically assume I prefer "Angie" when I introduce myself as "Angela". Yes, I correct them right away. If I don't, I'll hear Angie out of their mouths for the rest of our acquaintance and that will drive me insane.
Pet names are something else. My husband has several pet names for me, and that's okay. Husbands and wives have such names for each other; it's part of the intimacy of marriage. But when he's not calling me by one of those pet names, he calls me Angela.
And my screen name is okay as an alternative, because that's a name I've given myself.
Because I hate nicknames so much, I never give them to friends, and never use them unless that person herself has said, "Please call me..." Cricket, or Bunny, or whatever.
Let me tell you how I feel about having a nickname bestowed upon me. I hate it. I prefer to be called by my name, my full name, and not a shortened or diminutive version of my name. It gripes me no end that people automatically assume I prefer "Angie" when I introduce myself as "Angela". Yes, I correct them right away. If I don't, I'll hear Angie out of their mouths for the rest of our acquaintance and that will drive me insane.
Pet names are something else. My husband has several pet names for me, and that's okay. Husbands and wives have such names for each other; it's part of the intimacy of marriage. But when he's not calling me by one of those pet names, he calls me Angela.
And my screen name is okay as an alternative, because that's a name I've given myself.
Because I hate nicknames so much, I never give them to friends, and never use them unless that person herself has said, "Please call me..." Cricket, or Bunny, or whatever.